With men, I am a bit more limited.
My ideal is kind smart beautiful and affectionate. Maybe watch a band play somewhere. Out of practice Dd/bg with M/s collaring experience, but no longer have the patience for subs that top from the bottom. I take pride in how good I can do it.
Someone who can be up front but tactful , who has morals and is honest.And one more thing, if you like kitties brownie points lol kisses .